Can I have anal sex again after hemorrhoidectomy?
I'm a gay male (37) and I noticed I have some extra skin tissue "back there." I saw a dermatologist who recommended me to a colorectal surgeon. I wasn't sure if it was a hemorrhoid or a skin tag. I think it "might" be a skin tag because it doesn't hurt, itch, or anything- it's just kind of there. It's not inside me, but right outside.
I saw the colorectal surgeon and it would have to be surgically removed like a hemorrhoid. He said he would suggest waiting 12 weeks before having anal sex after the surgery.
Is there anyone who's had this surgery who can give further insight? I'm planning to see another colorectal surgeon to get a second opinion. But I'm seeing stories with gay men saying they go years before they can try anal again and I'm wondering if that's true. Are there any gay men who've had this surgery where it all turned out fine? Is it worth it to get this surgery? Like I said, it's not painful, but I just feel gross with it there.