u/AyBet

My separation packet is heading to AFPC so I just been waiting for the orders to drop. It’s a medical admin separation so it’s honorable, but tbh I just want to be at home with my wife and family. I hate coming to work and not being able to work and forced to do house mouse shit or sitting around. I hate my unit, my leadership doesn’t even care about me, and I just want to stay home until I start out processing. I tried begging my leadership and commander but they just don’t care and now I’m being sent to help with support. I miss working on the flightline. I used up all my leave too and I know I need to suck it up but this shit just sucks. I don’t know what to do and don’t want to fuck up my discharge characterization, but I can’t deal with this bullshit anymore. Not asking for pity just in my sad boi hours yall

Hey my spouse and I did a civil marriage and she’s been trying to get confirmed however since it’s civil it’s considered an irregular marriage and we tried to get it convalidated but our witnesses were unable to finish it with their respective priests. She’s been wanting to get confirmed and we’re nervous that she won’t be able to get confirmed (her confirmation is this Sunday). Is there anything we or the priest can do to help?

Awhile back I posted about my separation situation and tbh it’s going good in the sense I landed a job on the outside, but I don’t have my orders so I don’t know when I’m getting out. Honestly I just want to give up on life and before you guys come to me to tell me to “go get help” I did and because I went to get help I’m getting admin separated. I wanted to be in the Air Force and to be work on being the best I can become and my unit sucks, but I had the hope of eventually PCSing. Now that’s gone and the commander won’t allow me to palace front or palace chase. Yes mental health matters but it won’t pay the bills, it won’t put food on the table, and it won’t put a roof over my head. If it weren’t for my pets and my spouse I probably would’ve removed myself iykyk. I don’t know anymore. I miss my old unit, my friends, and my mentors, I failed them all and my current unit failed me. I’m treated as an outcast, an inconvenience, and a waste of space. It hurts so bad that I failed to make this a career, that I failed my family, and that I failed myself. I want to depart from this existence.