u/BaBoo_MoMo777

Honest question if anyone would like to discuss: there seems to be a phenomenon of men in long-term committed marriages, who are looking for daily chat buddies with women.

I believe the men when they say they are looking for a genuine connection and to look forward to chatting with a woman day-to-day and are not looking for in person meet ups or looking to end their marriage.

I just find the phenomenon interesting that men are looking for intimacy in this way. Has anyone had experience with these types of friendships that are not exactly your traditional penpal? How did it end up? Does it work more for the men than the women?

Because I imagine if a man and a woman chitchat with each other every day, the man might get that hit of dopamine and it would fill his cup and that compartment that he’s looking to fill in a positive way, but for a woman, I think it would lead to greater desire for intimacy. These are generalizations. Does anyone have any thoughts?

I am an improver Tango dancer and I’d like to visit Buenos Aires, to take Tango classes and go to Milonga‘s but also for Spanish immersion and sight sighting

I speak Spanish and I’ve traveled in Latin America- but never alone.

Organized Tango trips are extremely expensive. I am on the Tango Vida group, which is super helpful. Does anyone know of any homestay or language immersion programs in BA that would complement a Tango focused trip?

Or any other tips?

I am an improver Tango dancer and I’ve thought about visiting Buenos Aires where there are multiple opportunities to dance every day of the week.

I speak Spanish and I’ve traveled in Latin America- Mexico, and Cuba, but never alone.

Organized Tango trips are extremely expensive. Anyone have experience organizing this trip on their own?

I would be happy to do a mix of sightseeing, Spanish immersion, dance classes, and going to Milongas (Tango dances).

50 year-old man, I’m super interesting. I love to read and hike and jet ski and have deep meaningful conversations.

I am married with children and am committed to my wife and will never leave her. But I’m very lonely as we don’t communicate so I’m looking for daily contact someone who can entertain me and give me lots of time and attention.

I would be happy to be that person who will greet you every morning and make an effort to put a smile on your face every day

Since I am a man, you’ll feel honored that a man has decided to give you some attention. You’re welcome.

We will have intimacy with no relationship or commitment. I will give you attention with no lasting bond. You’re welcome..

Since you’re a woman, I figure what better way to spend your time and attention than chatting with me, I am a man after all. I am bored and I know you have the resources of time and attention and I humbly that you lay all your love on me, I’m also ABBA fan, and Erasure since I’m Gen X

After months of years of daily connection you’ll look back and say, what have I done with my life? You entertained me and you’re very special to me. We live in a patriarchy and it’s not right that I’ve spent so much time fulfilling my obligations, but have pockets of boredom throughout the day and I want you to know in advance how much I appreciate you servicing me in this way. I’m a good guy because we will never have sex.