u/BambiLesbiEnban

I'm my gfs first ever partner and like... idk I was okay with being her first sex partner too but now I feel unintended pressure. Like I know for sure she'd want sex more often than I would be okay with and there's a bit of anxiety now when I know she's coming over. I just feel bad because I'm her first and I feel like it is unfair to her that I just am not all that into sex and this being something new to her she's excited for... and like idfk. We have our relationship as poly, precisely because I'd like to see her with other people who'd scratch that itch for sexual intimacy she has. I don't feel okay to keep that from her and I don't feel okay that I feel pressure to do it myself. Like it'd help a ton if she had another partner tbh. She's bi too and sounds like she esp likes the idea of poly because then she could be with both a woman and a man but it's like she's not even trying to find anyone else at the same time. I don't really know what to do. What do you all do when you're with someone who wants sex more than you?