Kings who married straight men, did you stay married?
Just curious. My husband and I have been together for about 7 years now with two little kids; I don't think he realized how gay my gay is, and I think it makes him uncomfortable. I want to get out and do more drag, but I feel like I'm being selfish because I know it makes him uncomfortable. I don't really know what to do with that other than respect his comfort zone. I just feel like I'm kind of building boards around my closet. though.
I'm torn because I'm trying to figure out how healthy the relationship is, and what kind of relationship I want to model for the kids. I also believe that when possible, it is best to have the kids growing up with their bio parents present. I love him and he loves me, I just feel like he loves me as long as I don't escape the mold that he has in mind for me. Not like in a controlling way, just in a...idk...like, he doesn't realize how much I'd like to live with a penis kind of way.