u/BearHands00

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically. Communication is a huge thing for me. Admittedly I have an anxious attachment style, this means if my partner doesn’t communicate their needs or feelings, I will assume the worst and stress myself out.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication.

Aside from that I have been described as a "good time" I once had myself described as a "fluffy haired golden retriever boy" I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that.

What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. I would love to get some album or song recommendations from you, I listen to just about everything so odds are I'll enjoy whatever you share. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I love reading as well. I typically listen to audio books in my free time and while I'm working out. I love Sci-fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.

I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I am bisexual so gender is no issue to me, I will say that I lean towards women and more feminine men at this point. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together.

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically. Communication is a huge thing for me. Admittedly I have an anxious attachment style, this means if my partner doesn’t communicate their needs or feelings, I will assume the worst and stress myself out.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication.

Aside from that I have been described as a "good time" I once had myself described as a "fluffy haired golden retriever boy" I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that.

What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. I would love to get some album or song recommendations from you, I listen to just about everything so odds are I'll enjoy whatever you share. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I love reading as well. I typically listen to audio books in my free time and while I'm working out. I love Sci-fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.

I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I am bisexual so gender is no issue to me, I will say that I lean towards women and more feminine men at this point. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together.

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I am at a good point after my previous long term relationship where I fell comfortable pursuing a meaningful connection with someone else. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication. Aside from that I have been described as a "good time" I once had myself described as a "fluffy haired golden retriever boy" I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that. What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. There is no greater feeling than getting in a car, blasting some tunes and going where the wind takes you. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I am bisexual so gender is no issue to me, I will say that I lean towards women and more feminine men at this point. That by no means means that I would oppose a relationship with another masculine presenting man, we would just have to mesh really well. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I am at a good point after my previous long term relationship where I fell comfortable pursuing a meaningful connection with someone else. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication. Aside from that I have been described as a "good time" I once had myself described as a "fluffy haired golden retriever boy" I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that. What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. There is no greater feeling than getting in a car, blasting some tunes and going where the wind takes you. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I am bisexual so gender is no issue to me, I will say that I lean towards women and more feminine men at this point. That by no means means that I would oppose a relationship with another masculine presenting man, we would just have to mesh really well. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together

Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I am at a good point after my previous long term relationship where I fell comfortable pursuing a meaningful connection with someone else. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication. Aside from that I have been described as a "good time" I once had myself described as a "fluffy haired golden retriever boy" I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that. What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. There is no greater feeling than getting in a car, blasting some tunes and going where the wind takes you. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I am bisexual so gender is no issue to me, I will say that I lean towards women and more feminine men at this point. That by no means means that I would oppose a relationship with another masculine presenting man, we would just have to mesh really well. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together