Retaining purely with my wife…looking for advice. Wish you all a Good Friday evening.
I’ve been retaining for 3+ years with hiccups along the way. I’ve fully felt the benefits prior to being in a relationship. Since then, they’ve been very on and off and mostly off with anxiety coming back into my life.
I’ve been reflecting through the pain I’m mental/spiritual pain I’m enduring and I’m finding that I had no consciousness of the difference between edging with her and purity.
I believe my disconnected feeling to others lately and anxiety are a byproduct of impure retention(50+days as of now).
I found an amazing wife who is fully supportive of this practice.
The downside I’m looking for other perspectives on:
- How does one stay fully pure while cuddling your partner during intimate moments such as movies or going to sleep?(I sometimes can’t help but to get hard, and I’m hoping I can fix this)
2.I’m worried being fully pure might not be thoughtful to my wife even though she is 100% supportive.
3.i NEED this purity back. This is who I am. But I also have a very wholesome wife who deserves my love.
Any advice would be appreciated, thank you.