Please I need your advice.. My childhood bestfriend asked me to be her MOH when we met last December and ikakasal na sya this May sa Australia. Sorry if I’m posting it here wala na kasi ako malapitan and this is about weddings, Pinoy naman kami pareho.
I wont mention the AU state baka masyado nang pamigay. She never offered financial help sakin knowing na I quitted my job this january and I’m the breadwinner. She knows me and my family, lumaki kami in the same neighborhood. Ang kasalanan ko siguro I never asked for any financial support maski pang visa man lang, I just booked everything using my own money. Then a loved one died last month, ang laki rin ng hospital bill namin. I voiced it out to her and she told me pag nasa *insert name of state* of AU eh sila na daw bahala sakin, san ko ba raw gusto mamasyal. Am I the asshole for wanting to cancel going there? halos 2 weeks nalang kasal na niya.
Also I bought my own dress kasi ganun din mga bridesmaids nya. Hindi nya rin pinadala sakin physically yung invitation sinend nya lang yung picture sa messenger, wala naman name ko sa invitation as MOH or any Principal Sponsor. I cried so much kasi she can’t give the same energy I can give to all of my closest friends. Ang out of touch na niya. I guess we outrgrew each other.
What should I do? People pleaser pa naman ako..