I’m [M32] concerned about lack of intimacy with boyfriend [M33]
My boyfriend M33 and I M 32 don’t see each other for about 5–10 days at a time because of our work schedules. He and I have been dating for about 7 months and live together. This past couple of weeks we had ten consecutive days off. We spent every minute together. The thing that concerns me is that we had sex only twice in that time period. The lack of intimacy drives me crazy. He claims he just isn’t affectionate, but I think there is more to it. I’m thinking he’s just comfortable having me around because he hates being single. I pay all the bills and do all of the chores around the house. If he tells me to jump, I ask him how high. Is it normal for mlm relationships to have sex only once a week? I personally have never heard of that - especially at this age.
TL;DR: My boyfriend (M33) and I (M32) only had sex twice during 10 consecutive days together, and I’m worried the lack of intimacy means he’s just comfortable in the relationship rather than truly attracted to me.