Bf left me drunk in the car in a parking lot for over an hour
My bf (22M) had a grad party where he invited a ton of family and friends from school. I (22F) rarely drink. I also graduated so I wanted to have in on the fun and I over did it. I ended up throwing up at the party. At this point my BF said let’s get u to the car. We sat for about 10 minutes and he said that he needed to get back to the party. I asked for a few minutes and I’ll go back with him cause I didn’t want to stay in the car by myself. It was almost midnight in a small parking lot in a not super safe city. I ended up throwing up again at the car. He told me he was going back and that he would be right back. I’ve never threw up from being drunk so I kept saying how I was super scared. He was gone for about 20 mins and came back to the car. He obviously could tell I was not doing well. He said let me just go say goodbye to his family ( a lot of them came from out of state ) and that he would be back in 10-15 mins. He left and he was gone for a little over an hour. Didn’t check up on me once. Not a text, call, or even a peak into the car. We talked abt it the next day and I told him I felt like he put me in an unsafe situation. Being drunk in the car, in a small empty parking lot in a not so safe area. I told him that I knew he didn’t just go to say goodbye and that I knew he was with his friends, he said yes I won’t lie to you I was. I brought up that he didn’t check up on me at all, and didn’t even care to see if I was okay, not even a call or text. He at one point even said I honestly just thought u would have fallen asleep (as if this was supposed to make the circumstances any better).
He did apologize but I still can’t get over the fact that my safety was compromised. How do I proceed and move forward? What are your thoughts? What’s should I do? We’ve been together for a little over a year now.