I'm 16 I've only known my dad for around 2 years and we aren't that close. I recently accepted the fact im gay after I fell hard for a kid at school.
Anyways I came out a week ago to my family and friends and now all i have left to do is come out to my dad and his family.
I really do want him to be in my life but hes made a lot of homophobic remarks about how "The gays are shoving it in our faces." & "why dont we have straight pride?"
Hes also a bit sexist and a creep, we havent gone out once without him telling us to look at a "sexy girl."
He asked my brother a few months ago if he was still into girls after my brother (who is emo) showed up wearing eyeshadow and nail polish.
Im especially worried because I'd rather come out when hes sober but he's still drinking every time I see him.
Now I'm not saying he's a bad person, he was when he was younger but now hes trying to be better. Not really for me or the other kids hes abandoned, but for the one kid whos mother died so he had to take care of him.
Surprisingly this kid (who i love dearly since ive always wanted to be an older brother) is really cool for who his parents are.
Anyways back on topic, any advice to help with coming out? Or like a fallback plan if needed. He's taking me out, so its just us on the 15th