I need some help/clarification/fresh eyes
So I have been single for a long time, because I am mistrustful of men due to trauma and the world. I’m kind of like a deer with them, one wrong move and I run away, because the risk is too high otherwise. For a long time I’ve been told by my guides my soulmate is coming and that he will help teach me to be vulnerable again, because it’s what I want despite the fact I fun from it. I’ve met this guy recently, and something about him nags at me, I can’t tell what it is, but I find myself going back to thinking of him randomly, without really knowing why. My guides say he’s a good option for me, but that I have to take the initiative and pursue him myself. Thing is, I don’t know how to do that. I was wondering if someone could do a reading on me and him, how compatible we are, what he thinks about me, how I should go about pursuing him, etc. I need fresh eyes, I just keep thinking myself into circles. Thanks!