Gina’s Facebook post.
As some of you may know I had a very public friendship break up on social media a few months ago . I don’t talk about it often but when I do, I alway have some people in my comment section making snide remarks. They say I’m being “mean” or “childish” for speaking on it and that the other party is just out their living their best life without a care in the world.
Let me be very clear here. There’s a BIG difference between someone going silent because they’re mature enough to accept the friendship is over… and someone going silent because they’re praying the situation blows over before anybody starts comparing notes. 😂
Don’t confuse silence with maturity‼️
Sometimes silence is just damage control.
When someone knows the truth about their behavior and that it could expose who they really are, suddenly they don’t want to “talk things out,” clear the air, or defend themselves. They just want everyone to shut the hell up and move on.
Because the less said, the less they have to explain. The fewer questions asked, the fewer lies they have to keep straight. And God forbid the truth ever gets told by someone who actually knows them. 👀
If you’re comfortable with how you handled a situation, you don’t need to hide behind silence.
But if you’re desperately hoping the friendship breakup disappears because you’re terrified of being exposed for the person you really are…
Baby, that’s not maturity. That’s panic with a quiet setting turned on. 😂🔥
And I promise you—people eventually figure out who you are without me having to tell them.
I’m not afraid to talk about a situation that I lived through because I have zero to hide. I’m not ashamed of the person that I am. I will always take accountability for my own actions and I am not a liar. Therefore no one could “expose” me for anything.
I know exactly what happened and I know exactly who they showed themselves to be.
Go right ahead and hide behind your silence. Protect that little carefully curated version of yourself and keep pretending you’re the mature one who “just walked away.” While your dick rider followers fight for you in a comment section looking like absolute fucking morons😂😂
You wanna go silent? Bitch, go silent. 😂But for the love of God people stop with the “she’s a mean girl” bullshit. Honey, I’m just truthful and sometimes the truth hurts.