u/Calm_Sakura

Alright so this is going to be very graphic and it will get very uncomfortable for some ppl thats y there is an NSFW tag so pls read this at ur own risk.

So rn the situation in my class is shaky and it def does not look good but istg I did not do anything at all. This whole thing started like a week ago initially it was an inside joke but it has escalated even further.

For context during DET lesson suddenly my friends were talking abt ED (if ukuk) and some of them asked what is it and ofc i explain it to them then all of a sudden they talked abt 🌽 (again if ukuk). This is ofc smt vv normal for guys lah all my friends also watch it vv normal one then I said yeah I do watch it sometimes but this guy lets called him N he purposely misinterpret it as CP and I was genuinely confused how tf is those 2 remotely similar one is legal one is illegal like wtf. Then this guy lets call him Y he started giving me the nickname Amos Yee and everything here just went downhill. Afterwards this guy lets call him S started calling me that.

Tdy was when it completely broke. I was doing math in English lesson when the teacher told me to "put away it otherwise i wont continuemy lesson and i will hold u back". I was going to but all of a sudden S said "put it away lah Amos Yee" and as soon as he said that I immediately turn back into doing my work and told him "Either u call me by my name or I will waste ur time" then all his friends go suck his dick and point at me lah make me the suspect when he is the one who initiated it. Then he said that he will beat me up which honestly wasn't the worst part but he keeps gossiping behind me as if I cant hear him and talking shit abt me but honestly idrc. But this is when he crossed the line.

He spreaded it to all his other friends when he was not even involved and yet he keeps starting on it. Literally half the class started calling me that even when im asking the teacher and it took longer this fuckass S guy mocked me at the back (its vv hard for me to type it out even typing this I struggled a lot to try and phrase it) but to summarize, half of the class hates me bc I "supposedly wasted their time" when u cant even show proper respect to someone's name. This S guy also scribbled off my signature in another lesson a few days earlier.

So far I told my friends and parents my friends just say this situation is fked up and parents just say "ignore that guy treat him like trash" but honestly im stuck here. Idrc what Y, S and N says im more concerned abt the other classmates calling me that and even worse, spread to other classes. Any suggestions on what I should do?

Anything u need more clarification just drop it in the comments and I try my best to answer it.

Seen a post addressing this but holy shit its actually so normalized and its concerning. For context I cant communicate well with others. I dont rlly understand certain humors from each other. My interests are also different from others eg. I like playing parkour in roblox. During covid in my online lessons I open another tab and play during my entire lesson. Even to this day I still watch videos on parkour and yes even personal recordings that I recorded bc I find it extremely entertaining. But some ppl walk past and called me "weird" for liking smt else which I'm not offended by it its just, is there a problem for me to like smt that u find "corny"?

When it comes to communication I dont rlly understand certain humor bc of family backgrounds so I often talk to others from personal experience but omg its genuinely disgusting when they called me "autistic" bc I wanna get along with them but in a different way. Like yeah I understand if how I try to get along with others might not be comfortable with but u do not throw that word around rashly especially if ur using it as an insult without understanding it.

Why is it actually so normalized to just use this word randomly and call ppl it bc u find them annoying or irritating. This word is not a word to insult. This is not a word to laugh at ppl with it. I know what im saying bc I have a twin brother who has autism. I can understand if u dont understand the word but using it as an insult crosses the line completely. Plus its genuinely a weak ass insult having to bring up ppl who is actually mentally challenged to win an argument.

This actually shows how low-minded and pathetic ppl are who use this word to bully rather than actually understanding it. Even my friends can come up with better insults without having to bring up autism. Be grateful u do not have it and dont laugh at others who have it or insult others just bc they r annoying.