I remembered a reel alessia like of Maribel and she disliked it.
Also she followed Maribel on her private account and she unfollowed Maribel.
Maribel also unfollowed her.
Now alessia reposts stuff about how mistreated she is. Lmao
1. Aesthetic: Alessia started to change her aesthetic extremely. I don’t criticise she’s doing that, I’m just thinking it’s not authentic and all out of sudden since they’re friends. She’s got that 🍒🪩🐆 aesthetic, which didn’t fit her at all in the beginning. Maribel is kinda close to that.
2. Blonde hair: she also dyed her hair in the most random color, which also her friend Maribel has, blonde.
3. Extroverted: she suddenly stated she’s not INTJ anymore and more extroverted. Just like Maribel.
4. Priv. Instagram: She only follows her on her priv account, where she usually follows no one.
5. Posts: Everything is generated with AI, nothing is authentic. Her posts changed drastically.
I’d even be ready to think that she maybe has a crush on her or smth else.
Is Alessia really that bad of a person? Don’t get me wrong, but I just know too less about her.
I’m sorry if this might be the wrong community to ask, but I really liked her videos and enjoyed them, especially her TikToks, advice and aesthetic.
I don’t trust any influencers or people easily in general, but I kinda felt bonded to her, since we were alike in some things and she saved my teenage years. I knew her since late 2022 and she helped me to get through the day with her posts.
I saw that she has a daughter and „lied“ or doesn’t talk about her, neglects her etc.
I don’t want to defend that at all, I myself grew up in a neglecting household.
But is there more she did? Like scamming people? There’s a lot of posts on the snark but a quick/short summary would be nice, since I’m a bit shocked and don’t know where to start.
I found the sub because a random TikTok blooped up on my feed.
I don’t believe she’s an INTJ. I think she’s an ISFP.
Here’s why:
-> She’s looking extremely for authenticity
-> her own feelings and values are the main point
-> her decision are often from inner conviction than logical thinking (intuition, feelings)
-> she’s focused on identity, emotions and personal experience
ISFPs usually have a strong internal world (like me, I’m an INFJ and I have an extreme internal world, that’s why I felt so connected in the beginning to her)
She has tendencies towards: Ni (Introverted Intuition) - the meaning behind topics, theories etc.
-> if the stories she tells and posts are true, (I don’t mean the context, most of them maybe are not true) she looks for a deeper meaning.
-> she’s interested in symbolic
-> a lot of interpretation of personal experience
So that part might be actually true about her. If it’s not a show.
In general I’d like to add:
-> especially now that she changed her aesthetic and is more „spiritual“ she’s more present in the NOW (having a stronger sensation for what’s happening in the moment)
-> her Fi must be the most dominant one (own feelings, values..)
-> her Se must be auxiliary (here and now, sensations of information being processed now)
-> Ni tertiary (already described)
-> Te inferior (structure, efficiency)
ISFP: Fi → Se → Ni → Te
This post is NOT to spread hatred, even though I don’t like her. It’s MY theory and not factual. I’d like to hear y’all’s opinion. Correct me if I said something wrong :)))
Do you remember when she posted pics on the hospital like multiple times on different months? Could it be (just a theory not a fact) that those were from (plastic) surgery? She said nothing Abt them, only stuff like “don’t trust anyone” and stuff like that or enlightened stuff
Her moms Facebook account uploaded pics of her as a child, the same one Alessia herself reposted. Credits to the pic of the birth certificate go up to the pinned post “motherhood”.
What we learn out of that? Trust no one. Alessia is not an unwritten paper. She used to be my idol, since I had none. Through this snark I discovered that alessia had tricked people and made fake accounts to fool women. That’s not what a normal person does. She didn’t go to university, like she claims (there’s enough threats who proof that)
Alessia never denied she had a child and so on she cannot be named a liar, but I don’t think she didn’t mention because of safety. There’s many other reasons why she’s a liar, and a really really disgusting person.
I really don’t enjoy talking like this abt people and I never did a snark before, this will be the first and last one. I just want yall to open your eyes, because there’s smth fishy going on.