u/Candid_11

Anaaaaand ban incoming in 1…2…3…❌

This might sound stupid or obvious, but since both of them are currently without controllers, will they be paired with each other once Akanksha rejoins the house..?

Yeh kuch zyaada nahin ho raha hain?
Akanksha behaved in an unjustified way (including verbally and physically with assets/food/charging etc) and was rightly punished.

However:

1. She was kept in the punishment cell;
2. She is at risk the whole week;
3. She cannot be secured in charge sheets;
4. She was not given the chance to play for her own kharcha paani;
5. Now she has to BEG to controllers to feed her??

On top of that, they cannot share meals with her; they can only buy her full meals, which provides less of an incentive to do so.

Meanwhile, Shreya killed it today in the task, no doubt, but she has also behaved in an unjustified way (verbally) and NOTHING for her? Not even a slap on the wrist?

She was saved twice already and whenever she is unsafe, ya to Kangana ko dikhaave ke liye bula lete hain to save her, ya to khud hi kuch bhi keh ke save kar rahe hain. But when anyone else is unsafe, suddenly it’s other inmates who decide who gets to stay??

I mean itna bhi obvious mat kar do na..

As a hard core supporter of Akanksha, let me preface this by saying that Akanksha was completely in the wrong in this episode.

Everything she said and did was completely, completely wrong.

I liked that Shreya didn’t escalate the situation further, but Ak being wrong doesn’t automatically make her right. Both were wrong, but Ak was wrong more.

When I was younger, I used to have a similarly violent rage where kuch bhi karne aur bolne se pehle main nahin sochti thi. Looking back, with age and maturity, I realize today how much havoc my lack of anger management caused. I did not end up losing anyone because of it because I am blessed with close ones who understood that even if I went crazy in my anger, I was not a bad person.

But I have felt guilty for a long time and have apologized years later and mended things with everyone. I have worked on myself; I am not perfect, but a work in progress.
It took me decades of learning to understand that I was wrong.

So I am not going to defend Akanksha on this. She is definitely wrong and needs to learn this lesson.
All I can hope is she learns a lesson that humbles her and makes her realize that what she says and does in anger are destructive for others AND her.

I will keep holding on to the hope that she eventually learns, just as I did. I am not a blind fan and can recognize when she is wrong. But what I will not do is vilify her when I myself have done similar things in my youth of which I am ashamed and which have taken me decades to unlearn and undo.

I really hope she gets a dressing down on judgement day and that she sits and reflects on where she went wrong. I have hope she can reform because I have seen aspects to her which make me think she is very problematic yes (aggression/violence, going below the belt, arrogance) but not evil.

No one is a saint; to err is human. But it is whether you take accountability for your deeds that makes you grow.
And it is this that will determine for me, whether I continue to support her or not. I am in ‘watch how it unfolds’ mode now.

Do you guys feel Ram Kapoor is playing both sides? He also looks like he’s tiptoeing around Shreya as he avoids reprimanding her the way he reprimanded Akanksha today.
I feel this is because Akanksha maan jaati hain and respected their seniority so far, which is why she is done after still getting treated unfairly, despite showing the respect.

Main India se nahin hoon, par Lock up dekhti hoon.

Meri ek choti behen hain, jo LGBTQ+ community se hain. She’s going through the motions of family ko bataani hain ya nahin. We talk every day, and every day I tell her that the love will still be here if she does come out, because I will be here for her and doesn’t deserve to live her life in the shadows. She is afraid of whether she will be accepted or not. This little doll whose nappies I have changed, whom we brought up so with such laad, pyaar, but she’s still scared…
Yet, I reassure her that it’s not my secret to tell. It’s hers. When she’s ready. Today, she watched the episode of Lock upp with me. And broke down when it was revealed that Shreya outed Chamola without her CONSENT. She hadn’t watched the actual episode where Shreya did out Chamola. And now she’s reconsidering her own decision to come out..

I keep seeing people justifying what Shreya did; I just wanted to tell everyone; what Shreya did was inhumane; kuch cheezein game se badh kar hoti hain. Where’s Shreya Kalra’s damn humanity? Yes, Chamola might have brought this along as one of her secrets; but it was HERS to reveal, when SHE was mentally and emotionally ready, in her own words, not in the words of one weaponizing it for the sake of a bloody game. Chamola probably thought she was in enlightened company when she trusted them with this secret, just as my sister trusted me. But if you can trade such a secret, which can tilt a person’s world on its axis, for the sake of remaining safe for 1 fckng week in a game, all that tells me about you if how inhumane a person you are. I can’t believe I actually used to enjoy Kalra’s earlier videos. All I now see is the ugly face of one desperate to go to any lengths to ensure survival in a transient game.

Agar Chamola ki jagah meri behen hoti and Shreya did that to her, I would have gone to the ends of scorched earth’s to make her regret what she did. Unfortunately, I can do nothing and watch people clap for an inhumane act. Kitnon ke trauma revive hue honge, kitnon ko dard kua hoga. All good, as long as it’s for the sake of the game, right?