I am done asking for help from my "community"
A text I sent my husband. His mom and dad died and he has zero pictures of his family so I asked his old friends and church where his parents were foundational members for pictures of his mom and dad. They were at every event and funded most of the church so there are thousands of pictures out there of them. I got zero responses. Even from the pastor himself. And he owes most of his job to the work my husbands parents did over the 40 years they were at that church. We lost our home "rv" to the hurricane two years ago and got zero help cleaning up and my husband is disabled and can't lift. 2 years later and the rv is still on its side with half our stuff in it because I'm to busy working to deal with it. And maybe 20 people came to our wedding even though my husband's family is extremely well connected.
"So I am done asking for any kind of help from my "community" you see all these stories of the "community" coming together to help out thier neighbors but whenever I ask I get literally nothing. I asked for help with the rv when it fell over in the storm. Nothing. I asked for people to come to our wedding almost nothing, and now I've asked for people from your old life to send you pictures of your mom and dad and it's been weeks and zero nothing not one god damned picture. That is literally the last time I am asking anything of the "community". Especially your old crowd. They are just absolutely worthless."
I think the fault in this lies with TV. TV has lied to me over the years and led me to believe that people help each other and come together for eachother in times of need but I guess that's just another lie tv made me believe.