5. is it normal that most clients don’t come back?
I’ve recently started offering coaching sessions focused on emotional regulation, attachment patterns, self-awareness, and reflection work.
So far I’ve had around 10 clients. Out of those, 3 came back for another session, and 1 person has done multiple sessions.
After the first session, I usually give very simple practices, things like a short reflection/journaling exercise or a few minutes of breathwork. The problem is that many clients don’t do the work and then disappear completely. Even when I send a follow-up message, I often get no response.
I’m trying to understand whether this is:
- normal for new coaches
- a sign that my sessions aren’t providing enough value
- or whether I’m giving homework too early / too much.
- For those of you who are coaches, therapists, or work in personal development, What percentage of first-time clients typically return?
- Do you give homework after the first session?
How do you tell the difference between “client wasn’t ready” and “my coaching needs improvement”?
I’m not looking for reassurance. I genuinely want to improve and understand what’s happening.
Thanks in advance.
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