Laid off in February and have my bills pulling up now after living off my credit cards once my savings ran almost dry.
Actively looking for work each week, been selling things I own to get by slowly but it’s not enough and I have a wedding coming up. I’m freaking out. If anyone feels the need to help it is greatest appreciated, so much so I don’t think I could ever thank enough. I thought this year was going to be a new step but it so far has just been a nightmare. I hope the rest of you are doing better than I. Or at least keeping your head up. Thanks again.
Edit: Sorry about title it’s early and I can’t sleep cause stress lol
Edit: Why comment anything if you aren’t going to help, I know my financial situation. I know what I’m in, I know where I live and what’s around me and when to ask for help. If you aren’t going to help then why are you on this sub? Why are you criticizing posts, you don’t need to comment if you aren’t going to help. I’m not forcing anyone to donate anything, if I get out of this with $0. Then so be it, I took a chance to ask others for a little help. But it seems a bunch of you are on here to simply judge others and their situation and pick them apart rather then just help or not. If you’re not gonna help then don’t pick others apart, if you are then that’s just fine. What I don’t get is constantly commenting or messaging me to cancel my wedding. The point of this was simply to ask for help, not have others just judge my situation without knowing me, the full picture or what I have going on and will have going on in the future. If you want to help then help, but no need to pick apart me asking for help. I know what I probably should do, I figured people were nice enough to possibly help someone. Isn’t that what you’re suppose to do when you’re at your limit. When you’ve worked odd jobs, applied to temp places, sell things you own but need money sooner than it would normally take to be hired by someone in a few weeks. Can’t ask friends or family so what do you do you ask stingers yet they just judge you so what are we all doing here? Isn’t the point of this sub to help others?
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People seem to also think that this is for me supporting my fiancé when she is here…. That seems odd as the money I am asking is nowhere close to the USCIS minimum amount needed to support a spouse. I am asking to help my bills, that’s all. I have a full picture of my life in the hopes of being transparent and honeys with others but it seems many of you think I’m using this to try and get money to support my fiancé. NO, that is not the case. I don’t care if I made a cent more past my goal, I’m just trying to get by with my rent and bills that’s it. The mentioning of my marriage was to give the full financial spectrum of what I have going on in my life and why I was asking for help.