JUST DIVORCE ALREADY!!!!
I just needed to make a vent post - there's nothing i can do to change or fix this, so advice isn't necessary
My upstairs neighbors recently moved in from Texas. Its been about 6 weeks, and I've grown to hate these people. Their marriage is a fucking mess and I've been held hostage to it with no end in sight.
The root of the issue is the wife. Within their first week, I overheard her scream-crying on the phone so loud I thought they had a sudden death in the family. Little did I know, that was just the opening act. EVERY 3-4 DAYS she finds something to scream, stomp, slam doors, and wail about. And she will continue this for at least a couple hours, sometimes all day.
Worst incident is when she started pulling this shit at FOUR IN THE MORNING.
They have one child, but she seems to be largely allowed to do whatever she wants up there, including her favorite game of jumping on the furniture and landing on the floor. (Its exactly as loud as it sounds.) The only time I've heard either of them raise their voice at her is the one time it sounds like she broke something.
No, her ire is usually reserved for her husband, who just responds more quietly and takes it. On a couple of occasions it sounded like things were getting physical, but I can't be sure. I can't understand what she's yelling about (they don't speak English at home), and at this point I don't care. He could have cheated on her and I'd still level the blame on her for staying and exposing her kid to a desperately toxic household rather than leaving. Seriously, if I woke up one morning to find him moving his shit out, I'd stand in the window and applaud.
It's EXTREMELY stressful. Its embarrassing. I DO NOT have people over anymore. I've lost sleep, either from being woken up or unable to relax for all the screaming.
And its only been six weeks.
Yes, they are screaming as i type this.