u/Charming-Syrup-7668

I am someone who always wanted to have a big family but things haven’t worked out the way that I hoped.

This question is more for women that are egg freezing only or women that have used their frozen eggs and got success with the quantity they froze. I know this is very individual but just curious to know what people felt safe with, especially if you want a big family (ie more than 2 kids). I am 38 years old and am aiming for 80 eggs. Is this too much? I know it’s quite high but I am someone who has DOR and vaginismus on top so conceiving naturally is very unlikely to happen for me.

I am someone who always wanted to have a big family but things haven’t worked out the way that I hoped. This is more for women that are egg freezing only or women that have used their frozen eggs and got success with the quantity they froze. I know this is very individual but just curious to know what people felt safe with, especially if you want a big family (ie more than 2 kids). I am 38 years old and am aiming for 80 eggs. Is this too much? I know it’s quite high but I am someone who has DOR and vaginismus on top so conceiving naturally is likely not to happen for me as I have never had penetrative sex so situation is a bit different. Cost is ofcourse a factor as I will be self paying but this feels like an investment as cannot turn the clock back