Are my quiet hours rules and expectations unreasonable? [USA]
I rent out the in law suite of my home which has a separate entrance, private kitchen, private patio, etc. It’s considered a luxury property and the in law suite has 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. They also have their own garage on a different side of the house than our garage. I have it listed as “entire place” but in the description I go into painful detail about the home, the fact that sounds may still travel because even though it feels like a whole house, it’s still part of a single family home and wasn’t built with sound deafening walls. When guests book, I again message them and remind them that this is an in law suite, we live here, sometimes our dog barks and they might hear it, but we do our best to be quiet when we have guests.
That being said, like all guests, I disclosed to my current guest all the potential downsides to the home and he said it would work great for him. I also have posted no smoking anywhere on property and quiet hours of 11pm to 7 am. So today, my husband got home from work and saw cars parked in our grass and in front of our garage (there were also cars in front of their garage). It was only 6pm so he asked them to kindly move their vehicles, and they did and were apologetic. Then we continue to hear loud talking and laughing well past midnight. We didn't want to say anything initially, because the previous night they went to bed around 12 (that’s when it got quiet). But at 1am I heard someone on the back patio loudly talking on the phone and could smell cigarette smoke wafting towards our windows. I messaged the guest and he apologized and said he would remedy. Not 10 min later, coming through the walls from inside we hear l laughing, plates banging, and boisterous conversation. I reached out again and asked that they please keep it down as we are trying to sleep. At this point the guest seemed annoyed, as if the quiet hours rules were unreasonable. I’m just asking what other hosts’ expectations are for quiet hours behavior and noise level.
TLDR: Am I unreasonable for expecting my guests not to loudly laugh and talk during posted quiet hours?