u/CheddarMoose

For example- have you ever gone over offers & marked a house contingent online before actually notifying the winning bidder the next day?

We’ve had a few home offers that we saw marked contingent before we were officially notified from our agent that we did not get it. Obviously in these cases, we just weren’t chosen. Looking to see if there is ever a glimmer of hope they just decided to let us know in the morning that it was accepted 😅

We currently live in a 130-year-old Victorian home on a private lot. We loved fixing it up before kids, but with young children, we’ve realized how much upkeep it requires. No garage, expensive heating oil, a damp basement, limited storage, no central AC, and not much functional space.

We’ve lost out on 4 homes so far, all older character homes in established neighborhoods. I love the charm, but we’re now considering a newer, more “cookie-cutter” home that checks nearly all our practical boxes: 4 bedrooms, 2-car garage, second-floor laundry, and a great family-friendly neighborhood with lots of kids. I never thought I’d seriously consider this type of home, but I’m wondering if we’d actually be happier in this season of life with something more functional and lower-maintenance.

Anyone else considering the same? Maybe you already live in one of these plans? Pros/cons?

In the market for a home & really struggling over the house I don’t love that checks all the boxes VS the house I love the look of, but lacks some things.

We really would do best with a 4th bed. Most homes I love the look of only have 3. I would say all of these homes do require some updates (paint, carpet, appliances etc). The homes that are most functional occasionally need some paint & carpet. We’re either talking newer build vs older build (70s & 80s typically). If it fits ALL my boxes in terms of having a bit older charm & functionality-we’re at the absolute top of our budget.

Looking for experience on those who were in a similar situation and what you ultimately decided on. Any regrets?

TIA

After losing out on house number 4 due to our home sale contingency, I’m afraid we need another approach. Bridge loan is not possible. We need funds to close on the next house.

Has anyone done this? We’re looking to see if a potential buyer would draw out the closing if needed or possibly rent to us for an agreed amount of time. It scares the hell out of me as we have 3 children & pets. We have family that we could move in with if absolutely needed, but I’d like to avoid moving twice.

TIA

Looking for experiences from those who have downsized- anyone have regrets?

We live in a 2600 square foot home with kids & pets. I feel like most of my time is spent cleaning or thinking about all the things that need done but don’t have the time for. Including the yard & exterior stuff.

We still want something reasonable in size for everyone. Just feel like less space would be beneficial & easier to keep up with.

TIA!

We have lived in our current 1896 home for 5 years. I love old homes & the character that comes with them. We were newly engaged when we purchased & have put so much money into our home. Even so, I feel like there is a long way to go still. We have no AC, heating oil, no garage & a hand dug musty basement. Our kitchen & bath needs redone. Very little storage. Every single project left is a big ticket item. We’re spending about 4k a year on heating oil. (2600 square foot home, quoted 25k on mini splits). The rest of the projects are minimum 15k.

I’ve never been a huge fan of the new builds, but I can’t help but see the upsides to certain things since having kids. Our house has good bones but the price tag that comes with certain things sometimes doesn’t feel worth it to me. I’m just feeling super torn on which way to turn. Any advice appreciated.