Asked if I should do a sweetening spell on my toxic ex
Hey everyone, I’d love to hear your thoughts on my interpretation on this and also tell me yours, I dreamed of my ex (first love very very toxic narcissist 2021-2023 horrible inhuman relationship) and I’ve been thinking of doing a honey jar or other sweetening spell, wanted to see what my cards thought about it lol….
On the left is « how does he see me/what energy do I give out in his perspective » so I feel like he thinks I’m selfish and toxic, that I’m the reason why he never grew blablabla, and I’m fake (he demonized me the whole relationship and after, I’m used to it and don’t really care because I know it’s how he copes with all his mistakes and everything bad that happened to him)
On the right it’s « what would come out of this spell if I chose to do it » and……there’s not so much to say… I feel like it’s telling me girl stop no literally why/how would this be positive for you…. But I’d love to hear what you guys feel.
I’m a very very nostalgic and romantic person, I can get really caught up in my dreams and in my imaginary world where this ex, my first love, regrets everything, goes to the therapist (or asylum) and sees the error in everything he did to me, and also just got broken up with another ex so i know im literally avoiding and caught up in stagnation.
Im French sorry for my horrible English!!!!!