None of us can actually answer "what's our family worth" and it's honestly kind of embarrassing at this point
My portfolio is on Zerodha. My wife's is on Groww. My dad has a physical demat from 2004 linked to some broker he barely remembers the name of. My mom has PPF and a couple of LIC policies where the paperwork is somewhere in a folder nobody's opened in years.
So when someone asks "what are we actually sitting on" my answer is always some version of hold on, let me check four apps and a folder of old statements. And half the time those numbers are three months stale anyway because nobody's updated since the last time someone asked.
I tried getting everyone to just tell me their holdings once so I could add it up myself. Got maybe 60% compliance. My dad forgot he still had two mutual funds from a 2016 SIP that had been quietly auto-debiting for years.
When I finally did piece the whole thing together properly, the number was way off from what any of us assumed. Everyone had been mentally rounding down the old stuff they'd forgotten about and rounding up the recent stuff they check obsessively. The two errors don't cancel out.
Is this just my family or is this basically what everyone's finances look like once you have more than one earning member and more than one broker? How are people with scattered accounts actually staying on top of this?