Im a teenager that just suffered miscarriage that i need to hide from my parents
i’ve never posted on reddit or even really been on it but i was hoping maybe someone could help me. in January me and my boyfriend were doing the deed and we realized that we had no protection. because of the timing of my cycle, we figured if we did it this one time everything would be okay because according to my app there were 10 days before i would begin ovulating. long story short we spent about 18 weeks convincing ourselves that it was okay and ignoring all of my pregnancy symptoms until eventually we took a test and it was positive. we scheduled the abortion for this weekend and planned it out with his sister so that everything would be okay and our parents didn’t have to know. on wednesday, i was at his house just hanging out and i started having probably the worst cramps of my life. eventually i started bleeding and after about 2 hours we went to the hospital. there, i miscarried and i was reassured that my parents wouldnt know. i went back to my boyfriends house and finally called my parents to let them know that i was in the hospital but i was okay now. my parents immediately questioned me and my dad picked me up. since then, ive been lying to them and trying to convince them that my uterine lining was just built up and thats what they had to remove. this story was working but now my dad wants to go to the hospital on sunday and have me tell them that he can know what happened last night. what do i do? how can HIPPA protect me? my life will be over if they find out.
location: connecticut