u/Commercial_Lie_5922

Honestly, college faculty mentorship ka idea kaafi acha lagta hai sunne mein, but Indian reality thodi different hoti hai.

Haan, agar koi professor genuinely interested hai aur guide karta hai, toh it can really help clarity milti hai, kabhi kabhi referrals ya opportunities bhi. But let’s be real, aisa har kisi ke saath nahi hota. Most professors apne syllabus, exams aur admin work mein busy rehte hain. Aur honestly, kaafi log industry trends se bhi updated nahi hote. Toh agar tum expect kar rahe ho ki “mera professor mujhe career mein push karega,” toh thoda unrealistic ho sakta hai.

India mein kaafi log actually khud hi figure out karte hain. Internships LinkedIn se, off-campus placements, cold messaging ye sab zyada kaam aata hai. Not some filmy mentor-student bond.

Agar tumhe ek acha mentor mil gaya college mein, that’s great—seriously use that opportunity. But agar nahi mila, toh usko excuse mat banao. Real growth waise bhi class ke bahar hoti hai skills, internships, networking, thoda trial and error.

End of the day, thoda blunt hai but sach hai: tumhara career tumhari responsibility hai. Professor help kar sakta hai, but carry nahi karega.

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u/Commercial_Lie_5922 — 16 days ago
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Be honest, how many of us crammed the night before exams, passed, and forgot everything by next week?
I did. Every semester. Four years straight.
And apparently so did a lot of others, because only 20-25% of India's 1.5 million engineering graduates are actually considered industry-ready. We're not failing individually. The system is just not built for us.
We memorised. We never questioned. You could top your class in computer science without ever building anything real.
And the wild part? We created a 58,000 crore rupee coaching industry just to get through the original education system. Let that sink in.
Nobody blames the teachers either. They're dealing with 60 kids in a classroom, low pay, and a syllabus older than most of us.
Somewhere along the way, curiosity got replaced by marks. Thinking got replaced by mugging up.
Did anyone actually feel like they started real learning only after college ended?

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u/Commercial_Lie_5922 — 16 days ago