u/CompleteComplex2056

My 5.5-year relationship ended 3 months ago. We had a really bad, explosive breakup, and my ex blocked me everywhere. There was definitely love and passion between us, but unfortunately, the relationship had been pretty toxic from the very beginning, which always led to constant fighting.

A while ago, I did a spell using calamus root and licorice root, commanding them to reach out to me. I did it for two days straight, feeling super confident and putting all my belief into it, and then I just let it go. At first, I was sure it would work, but later on, I kind of lost faith and thought, "You know what, I don't even need this anymore." I completely stopped thinking about the spell.

Fast forward about 3 weeks later... Out of nowhere, I started dreaming about them for 3 or 4 nights in a row. For some reason, I got this overwhelming gut feeling that they were going to text me. On the 4th day, I checked my phone, and they actually did.

The text said: Honestly, I never intended to write to you again. But lately, the things that happened at the end keep popping into my head. You really hurt me, and because of that, I ended up hurting you badly too. It didn't have to end this way, and I'm sorry." But they also added that they don't love me anymore, and we cut the conversation short right there.

I’ve accepted the situation, but I want to give it one last shot with everything I’ve got. Do you think doing a love spell at this point makes sense? Or would it be a mistake since they explicitly stated they don't love me anymore? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Hi everyone

I was in a relationship where we were deeply connected to each other. It lasted for 5 years, but due to constant arguments, my ex told me that he/she hated me. We have been broken up for 3 months now. This person blocked me everywhere and has not unblocked me yet. I think my ex believes things between us can never change or improve. However, I heard from mutual friends that this person is currently very sad and feeling a deep void.

My plan is to start with a sugar jar first to soften the energy. After that, I want to cast a communication spell using calamus root, licorice root, and a purple candle

What are your thoughts on this combination? My goal is NOT to make this person obsessively attached to me. I simply want to dissolve the negativity between us and prompt my ex to reach out. I believe that if this person sees I have changed and if we can just have a conversation, we can fix things.