For several reasons I need to learn the basics of being drum major in a very short period of time. I'm an experienced piper for reference. Marching and decorum during say laying of a wreath and during taps, etc
She's a former cosmetologist so she does a good job. I wear my boxers and one of those capes and that's it. I usually have a beer and watch TV too. It takes her a while since she's out of practice. Usually like 45-60 minutes. Saves me like $45 I'd have to spend at the local barber. She doesn't even let me clean up the hair when she's done, I get to hop right into the shower and wash off the trimmings.
Arranged marriage is still very common. No need to look or act cool or have western social habits if mom and dad are going to find a partner for you. Just grind and strive and crank out a few kids to make the folks happy. Ship the kids back home for a few months for cheap child care if you wanna get right back to work. Different culture.