
Do you allow your dog on the bed?
My puppy is now 6 months old. Overall, she's pretty good, but I got a trainer to work with jumping on people and on counters. I love my trainer, but one thing she said makes me question. My trainer says that dogs shouldn't be on furniture or on beds because if they are, they will think they're your peer. She said to think of an alpha dog who's high on a rock above the other dogs in his pack, and the "under-dogs" don't dare go up on the rock.
My puppy (Vizsla/coonhound mix) learned not to pee in the house VERY quickly, and literally, since the day I adopted her at two and a half months old, she never peed her bed or in her crate. However, she cried some nights, hating to be alone. So at 3 months old, she slept in my bed, and we both were happy. We spoon, where the top of my puppy's head is under my chin, and her back is against my chest and stomach as we both sleep on our side. It's very comforting to us both.
So does my puppy think of me more like a sister than her Mom? What do you guys think? Am I spoiling her?