[F] is this love or crazy?
My ex husband & I have been divorced for almost 4 years. We were talking recently. He brought up the past by saying," Remember when you flew out to meet a guy in San Francisco. I called you & told you I was driving to CA. You told me to turn back around."
I said, "You're crazy!!" "No, that's love! I was coming to get what was mine! My love for you never changed in 20+ years we were married.," he replied.
In the past 4 years, I've had the opportunity to see how he acts in relationships. In my eyes, he stalks his girlfriends, buys their love with expensive jewelry, & wants to be in their presence, all the time. Is this love or is he crazy? Currently, he is in therapy. After his response, I told him to ask his therapist. To me, that's not love. That's an obsession. I was not about to tell him, he's has obsessive behavior.
What would you consider is healthy love?