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The issue of toxic masculinity in Zimbabwe

Zimbabwe has a problem when it comes to the ideology of how men should be and how they should represent themselves in society and this is very wrong, I personally believe that everyone has to be themselves and love whatever they are into.

To those that don't know toxic masculinity it refers to cultural norms and expectations associated with manhood that harm men, women, and society as a whole. It is not an attack on men, masculinity, or traditional male traits like strength, leadership, or protectiveness. Instead, it describes a specific subset of rigid standards that force men to suppress emotions, assert power through control, and avoid anything perceived as vulnerable or "weak." This includes the type of women you should be with the interests you should have and how you should approach situations.

This thing of saying that man should be very muscular rough bold and assert dominance is not a great way to have better men in today's society, it affects the newer generation, and this may lead to various issues. Males of all ages feel like they are not enough or they feel like they lack basic requirements for being a "man."

Relationships will be built on asserting dominance, there will be a lot of social pressure, depression anxiety you name it.

Why is this a normal thing in Zimbabwe, do you think its an issue to control or let go ?

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u/Craig_Martinthe2nd — 11 days ago
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Using reproduction to justify homophobia is not logical

A common argument goes something like “Sex exists for reproduction. Same-sex relationships cannot reproduce. Therefore, homosexuality is wrong.” However, that conclusion does not logically follow from the premises.

There are several problems with this reasoning:

  1. A reproductive function does not mean something must always be used for reproduction.People do many things for reasons other than their biological functions. We eat for pleasure, kiss, play, create art, exercise, socialize, and enjoy experiences that aren't directly related to reproduction. The fact that something can have a reproductive function doesn't mean every instance of it must serve that function.

  2. Heterosexual relationships aren't always about reproduction either.

Straight couples may be infertile, elderly, choose not to have children, or simply have sex without intending to cause a pregnancy. We generally don't conclude that their relationships are therefore immoral or meaningless.

  1. Evolution describes what exists; it doesn't determine what ought to be.

Evolution can help explain why certain traits and behaviours developed, but it doesn't automatically tell us what is morally right or wrong. Saying “this doesn't increase reproduction” is a biological observation, not by itself an ethical argument.

  1. A person's value isn't determined by reproduction.Gay people can contribute to their families, communities, and society in countless ways. People care for relatives, teach, create, work, invent, cooperate, and support one another. We don't measure someone's worth by the number of children they produce, so there is no logical reason to apply that standard specifically to gay people.

  2. Even a personal belief about sex doesn't justify discrimination.Someone may personally believe that reproduction is the primary purpose of sex. However, that belief alone doesn't logically establish that gay people should be bullied, excluded, denied equal rights, or treated as lesser human beings.

  3. The idea that homosexuality was simply “invented by the West” is historically inaccurate. There is evidence of same-sex relationships and diverse sexual and gender practices in various African societies before European colonialism. This means that homosexuality cannot simply be dismissed as a Western invention or something completely foreign to African history and culture.

For more information on this topic, you can also watch this video:

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS4wU3RK7/

What concerns me is that when people are presented with evidence that challenges their beliefs, some respond with hostility or personal attacks instead of addressing the evidence itself. Disagreeing with someone is completely fine, but refusing to engage with evidence or treating people disrespectfully doesn't strengthen an argument.

So, fellow Zimbabweans, without the use of scriptures, why are we still fighting people that seek acceptance, why are we so violent against homosexuals and what do you think is a valid solution ?

u/Craig_Martinthe2nd — 2 months ago
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Need help choosing internet in Bulawayo

Hello everyone,

I’m trying to determine which internet service to choose in Bulawayo, and I find myself a bit uncertain. I reside in the Parkview area close to the CBD. I require internet access for approximately 26 users simultaneously. I’ve been considering ZOL fibre, TelOne fibre, and Starlink. However, I’m unclear about which option would truly perform best in real-world conditions here in Zimbabwe, particularly with multiple users.

My primary inquiries are:

Which service is the most dependable in Bulawayo?

Which one manages a high number of users effectively without significant slowdowns?

Is fibre consistently available in my area?

Is Starlink a worthwhile investment, or is it excessive for my needs?

My budget is flexible, but I want to avoid spending money on a solution that cannot support the demand.

I would greatly appreciate genuine experiences from individuals in Zimbabwe/Bulawayo.

(I utilized AI to compose this since I'm not particularly skilled in grammar.)

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u/Craig_Martinthe2nd — 5 months ago