Son In Federal Prison
I am writing this I guess to vent. Some background - Son 26 yrs old, white colar crime, sentenced 37 months in December. I never had any type of legal issues with him until now. When he was in Pre-trial release he got a DUI and a marijuana charge (his GF) had marijuana on her, but he was not smoking at all. He was arrested 6 months b4 sentencing. Because of his violations he received a longer sentence. He was sent to one of the best Federal Camps and 2 months in he got into a fight over money. (trying to be street smart, but he knows nothing about that life just whatever he's learned in Prison). Now he's sitting in a transfer facility being sent to a low. FSA credits were taken away. He is in a bad relationship and as been disrespectful to me cuzzed me out because I do not want to have a relationship with his GF and he gets his anger out on me when she blocks him. She plays mind games and is very toxic. She is living off his credit cards which he allowed her to. I have helped him since day 1 and he has become someone I do not know anymore. I am to the point where if he continues to mess up and chooses the life of being locked up I do not want him to be part of my life. I guess I want advise from other people that have been part of the system and you are now a changed person. I don't mean to be rude, but I do not want to be part of my son's life if he chooses to be a criminal. I have a young son and I do not want his brother to be an influense in his life and to be honest it's embarrasing and disapointing. We have no family members that have ever been in prison. He is the first one. He went to college too. No drug addiction. Just continues to make bad choices.