Couple problem
So me and my partner have been together a few years now, we met in first year of uni. There is a lot of history there. But one thing has never changed, getting my partner to actually see my side of things feels almost impossible.
Every time we talk about something serious it just becomes about their point of view. Whenever I bring up something I think is morally wrong, the response is always "everyone is different." I get that, but there is only so many times you can say that before it starts feeling like an excuse to avoid the conversation entirely.
What gets to me the most is that there is no real logic or structure when we argue. It just goes wherever is most convenient for them. I have found myself agreeing to things I do not actually agree with just to keep the peace, and looking back I really am not okay with that.
I did try leaving. We broke up and spent a whole year apart. I thought that would help me move on and in some ways it did, but honestly the whole year I could not stop thinking about the good times we had. That year was really tough on me mentally.
So I genuinely do not know what to do. Talking does not work. Logic does not work. But leaving did not work either.
Has anyone been through something like this? Is there actually a way through it?