I have been trying to go out more these days. Hoping to find someone to share things with, being affectionate, feeling supported.
Lately I have gone on a dates with three girls and all seemed like nice people. I also sensed a connection with one but one common trend I am noticing is that all them had not recovered from their previous relationships.
Now it is normal to have past relationships, everyone has them but I find it uncomfortable being with someone who still has not gotten over their past love.
They have romanticed them out of proportion into an ideal. I cannot compete with an ideal. I do not want to be secondary to anyone. None wants to be secondary.
She kept talking about their exes. I felt like he was there on the date sitting next to us.
Is it true that women give in so deeply to that one relationship that they are afraid to give anyone else a chance?
Maybe it is better to hold back in the matters of heart and save your best for the person youbare going to end up with.
You share rain with someone and when the relationship ends they take the rain away with them. You cannot enjoy it anymore.