39 [M4F] #Chicago, world wide late 20s early 30s
I’m currently in an open long distance relationship. She’s in California, I’m here, and we’ve both accepted that life can be complicated sometimes she is definitely talking and seeing other people, so here I am. I’m not looking to jump into anything ultra srious, but I do miss having someone to talk to, go on fun dates with, travel with, laugh with, and fill in some of the missing parts of life.
At one point I really thought I’d be settled down with a big family by now. Maybe that still happens someday, maybe it doesn’t. Either way, I’m more interested these days in genuine connection, good energy, and enjoying life with good people instead of forcing some perfect timeline.
About me: former military, now an aviation engineer in Chicago. I’m stable, laid back, active, and probably happiest near the ocean somewhere with scuba gear on. I’ve traveled all over the world and will pretty much always choose a trip over buying something flashy. I love diving, cooking, motorcycles, good conversation, random adventures, and people who can laugh easily and not take life too seriously.
Mostly looking for chatting, friendship, chemistry, fun dates, and seeing where things naturally go.
I am 5'11 (over 6' with shoes) 200 lbs.. definitely height and weight proportionate.. looking for the same.