u/Current_Tension_9146

Ex boyfriend harrassing my friend

Hello. We are from Punjab and we are currently Uni students in 3rd year. My friend, let's call her K has been in a relationship with a boy, let's call him A. Theya are both between 20-22 age range. Now they were classmate s before and started dating a year before College. When we got to know about her relationship, we noticed many red flags like disrespective behaviour, narcissism, etc. when we met him, he didn't even greet us and they had a lot of fights and she would come to us and cry about him and say that she's going to breakup but the next day she would say that he has changed and a good man etc. Now, we stopped caring much about it, as we knew this became a pattern and wouldn't stop until she herself realises this maze. So they often got intimate as well, which was most of the time against my friends consent. And so this is a big thing, but she got pregnant too and had to abort as well which took a toll on her mental and physical health a lot. All due to his and her carelessness. Cuz he didn't wanna use protection and on top of it he didn't even bother taking my friend to the clinic etc. He used her like a rapido service, she used to do her assignment etc bcuz he used to threaten her that he will tell her parents and she never told us all this. Now recently she got done with him as her health started deteriorating and she finally understood our words to prioritise her health and he got her reports done which displayed that she had a lot of deficiencies. So now she was very angry with him and used to avoid him but he used to text her for s*x and all she denied saying that dhe is not well etc plus he spews a lot of hate for us as well cuz he thinks we provoke her, well which is a good thing. And one day he said something very derogatory about her roommate and bodycount etc. so A told this to her roommate and she told her boyfriend this. We all are from one university. And the roommates boyfriend called him directly which led to A calling K and she got really scared and he ordered her to come to him and then he forcefully took her to a hotel and slapped her and tried to abuse her sexually and that's when my friend got a panic attack. And that bastard instead of taking her to hospital, left her in the hostel where our other friends saw her and took her to hospital. Now fast forward they aren't talking directly but via friends. She is lying to him that she will talk to him when she will get better but we are kind of planning a lawyer thing through connections. But he sometimes gets mad and threatens her to call her family. Which he did but he didn't had the guts to tell about this so he stated talking about some other bullshit. My friend kind of told her parents but obviously she cannot tell much and her father said that he can destroy the boys life but u must not be at fault. Now my friend was finally getting her spark back but he gets mad as to why she has an insta account and bla bla. She still has body tremors. She has 6-7 medicines. She is going to a psychiatrist as well. We are also kind of thinking for a cyber complaint bcuz he has the evidence (pictures, texts , videos) as well.

If someone can provide some help pls do. We also have text based evidence.

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u/Current_Tension_9146 — 23 days ago