If my personality was shaped by things I didn’t choose, what part of me is actually “me”?
Serious psychology/philosophy question.
A person’s personality is shaped by genetics, childhood, parenting, trauma, culture, education, brain chemistry, and random life experiences.
But none of us chose those starting conditions.
So when we say “this is who I am,” what exactly are we talking about?
Am I truly choosing my personality, or am I just the result of everything that happened to me before I was old enough to understand it?
And if that’s true, where does personal responsibility actually begin?