27NB4F France/Europe/Online Looking for someone to spend my days with
Hello everyone.
It's been a long time since I last threw a stone here to see what happens.
You can call me Clélia, I am a 27 years old Tgirl (even though I'm more genderfluid to be exact), living in France, currently still at nurse school.
I am looking for someone that wouldn't be afraid to be clingy with me, and would like me to be clingy back at them. Someone I'd spend the whole day texting and be happy to call on Discord when going home, and falling asleep together.
I am someone that's fiercely loyal to the people I love, willing to stick through high and lows and convinced that an open hearted discussion, while sometimes painful, is the true cure to a lot of the issues we could face in a relationship, be it romantic or otherwise.
I have been disappointed time and again with people giving up when troubles begin to show up, or not wanting to have the honesty needed for the openhearted conversations I just talked about, but I am still looking for someone that'd have the same values than me on this side, and I'm sure I'll find them someday. (I'll just add that being honest, and having an open hearted conversation means, to me, being truthful and clear about expectations, about what's hurting you and why, about what we could improve, not an excuse to hurl insults at each other or try to hurt them through the pretext of honesty, being honest doesn't mean you can't be kind). That may seem like a long paragraph to talk about something like that, but it truly is the core of what I believe to be a healthy relationship and I needed to be fully upfront with it.
About me :
My hobbies are listening to music and discovering new ones, playing video games, mainly WoW for now, but also played some survivor horror or some coop games recently when I still had people to play with, and if that's something you like as well, and that we could share, that'd be a huge plus even if it's not a necessity. I also read a lot, mainly fantasy, science fiction etc, I like using it as an escape.
Physically, full disclosure I am still at the start of my transition and still look mostly masculine, I am white if that matters, I have medium length curly black hair, brown eyes, my height is 1,78m, and I weigh 79kg, so pretty average build.
Politically speaking, I'm left leaning (but like, leaning a lot), and I can't imagine having a relation with someone not sharing my values
About you :
Just be a kind soul willing to work on a relationship and not give up at the first occasion
You'd ideally like to spend time texting throughout the day and evenings/nights together through discord or something similar, I am clingy, and I'd like someone matching that
Ideally you'd be in the same time zone as me to make those calls a possibility, and bonus points if you're in France and we can actually meet up short or middle term (no pressure about meeting up though)
Bonus points if you're someone not afraid to make a good old info dump about things you are passionate about, there's really not much I like more attractive than someone talking about what they love, whatever it is
You know you have the right to have pre-existing traumas and insecurities and are willing to talk about them when you want to, feel safe about it, and/or if they ever have an impact on your relationships, if I provide you with a judgement free space to do so and am willing to comfort you and help you get through it, or adapt my behaviour to it
You're not judgemental about me coming in your life with some traumas and insecurities myself, some having healed more than others, and can comfort me and help get through it instead of shaming me for it
If you read all that and find that it's something that would be of interest to you, hit me up, I'll probably give you my discord fast because I'm more active and reactive there than one reddit
If you'd want a conversation opener, what's a song that'd best describe yourself right now ? It'd be "A Contrecœur" by Yoa for me, a french song about losing a friendship, and the hurt it can cause even if there's no romance involved
Hope to hear from you soon