25 yrs later
I found an old boyfriend that I always felt got away.
We were together 1 year, I became pregnant. It was a bad situation, so he and I decided to terminate the pregnancy. I was so in love with him, he wasn't ready to settle down. It took all my nerve to even tell him because I assumed that would be the end.
He handled it very well. Was with me all along.
Months later, we separated. I began seeing a mutual friend. His friend asked if it was okay to ask me out? My bf said, yes. I don't love her.. she deserves better.
Ffw:25 yrs later. We find each other again. Things are different. Then one day he says: I know that wasn't my baby, I was tested before I met you. I was sterile, my wife and I were infertile. He said I lied! I DID NOT LIE. I DIDN'T SLEEP WITH ANYTHING WITHIN YEARS OF HIM. I swore! He said I believe science. BUT I have since found out.. low/no sperm count can be temporary, and caused by many factors. Weight, alcohol intake( he had stopped drinking between her n I.) Stress, medicine, swollen veins, bad mix between spouses.
He will say 'I can't trust you over the most important life moment' I have offered to take a lie detector test, to have him texted now, to try to find those old records from 1990's. I'm telling the truth. I never slept around, I was obsessed with this man... I wouldn't risk losing him with pregnancy. I need a link to a short but simple explanation of how sperm count can change. And for my own self I need to know why if he doesn't believe me, why did he come back to me 25 years later. I just found out that he didn't believe me I had never heard that story. I just don't understand why they didn't tell me he thought he was sterile when I told him I was pregnant with his child my way this long.
Does anybody have any advice on this...
Other than I should just move on because he doesn't believe me I just want to prove to him I'm telling the truth because I know my truth.... Maybe then I'll figure things out with them.
Please help me!