u/Dazzling-Pair2025

Moving back to Zim after divorce

I am planning on moving back to Zjm from the UK

My husband and I got married 6 months ago. We are thinking of divorce and its mainly due to me.

We dated for 3 years and had an amazing time until marriage. However. Due to Zim culture, I followed it by the book. We both did , no sex before marriage and not moving in together

After wedding we moved in together and realized that we have different ways to decorate the home. When I came into the marriage, I already had my furniture and he initially said he was fine with it but then said he needed his touch in the home. Cool we bought new furniture

Now comes to the bedroom. I was a virgin with 0 experience and had no idea that I do not get wet during sex and it hurts him so he dosent enjoy intimacy

He also mentioned that’s I have masculine energy and I cant carry myself as feminine and he is loosing attraction. Have stayed alone for years and had to figure it out in my own so I was used to making decisions fast. I always incorporate him now that we are one but all my efforts to dres nice, speak with a low voice etc are void

Its my fault, I never took time to notice that I am not feminine enough

This has made our short marriage so bad and it’s leading to a divorce

Where do I even start with life in Zim when I leave the uk 🇬🇧

I am probably just ranting

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u/Dazzling-Pair2025 — 2 days ago