How do you keep self-imposed deadlines real when nobody enforces them?
So, as somebody who just finished their PhD (yay), I'v been thinking about something that bugged me my whole study, and is bugging me still. Motivation vs deadlines... As an example, advisor deadlines and submission dates tend to hold, but the in-between ones (finish the lit review section by Friday, send the draft...) slide constantly because nothing happens when you miss them. Plus my supervisor did not give a damn majority fo time, so I could ignore even some of the major deadlines for days or weeks, before any consequences.
What do you use? A writing group, a check-in with your advisor, locked calendar blocks, anything else that actually works?