My boyfriend’s ex/baby momma is a horrible person
Hi there this story I’m about to tell happened a few years back I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years now his ex has been with about 15 different guys since I’ve been with him. She married someone she barely even knew for like 2 months and about a year later she filed for divorce. Apparently he abused her and sexually assaulted her a day before they got married. Who knows if that is true I asked her if that actually happened why did you marry him. She said it was because she didn’t want it to look bad on her. She doesn’t have any friends due to her being selfish and heartless and thinks she is better than everyone which she is teaching my stepdaughter to be this way as well. Now this story will go to a week before she gets married. My stepdaughter plays softball and she had games about 2 hours away and unfortunately her father was called into work but his ex sent us a message and said that they couldn’t stay the whole time and needed someone to come get her by 5. Since her father couldn’t go I said I would go get her. Also I have my 8 month old son with me too. So I drive 2 hours there and as I’m at the light to pull into the parking lot I get a text message for his ex saying that they didn’t leave cause they didn’t want to leave her alone and that the last game was almost over. So I went and found parking and then let her know I was there. It took me maybe 5 min to park and then she says that they already left. How in the last 5 min did you just leave? She knew I was coming didn’t even call me to see where I was. I asked her if she could just bring her back and I’ll take her home since it was our weekend she says no and says she will just pull over and I can come to her. I just drove 2 hours with a 8 month old and at this point I’m pissed. I feel like she did this on purpose because she is jealous of us. She wants to have another kid but can’t find the right guy because she is so awful. This women has been nothing but awful to my boyfriend always says he doesn’t pay anything when he pays child support and half of her sports and half of a cell phone bill. His ex never even came and talked to us about getting her a phone and just expected us to pay half. He also pays for my step daughter medical which she doesn’t pay half for. She was 5 at the time when she got her a phone. No 5 year old needs a phone. She also tells her daughter that dad never pays for anything. Circle back to now my stepdaughter has been manipulated by her so bad that she doesn’t even want to come see us or her brother. Her mother is now in another new relationship but who knows how long that will last due to her being a c u next Tuesday. It won’t take long for him to figure that out. I just hope one day my step daughter can see through all her lies and manipulation that we love her deeply and that dad was there for her even though her mother says he wasn’t. It just makes my boyfriend super depressed and I wish there was something I could do for him. Just for context they do have 50/50 custody but since she is 15 she chooses not to come over and we can’t force her too. I just hate seeing him so sad.