u/DiscountEmotional861

Back again with another bar related question!

For various reasons I pretty much only drink fortified wines (and clear alcohols) besides the occasional beer. I'm curious as to whether anywhere in Portland has a selection of fortified wines, or even one? Thanks in advance!

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u/DiscountEmotional861 — 20 days ago

I want to go out and be kind of slutty (while being as safe as possible). I've been out on my own a couple of times, but nobody has hit on me, so I'm wondering if I'm picking the wrong places. And I'm not trying to act like I think people should be lining up to talk to me, but I get hit on a lot in other contexts and I've been told I seem very approachable, so the fact that it's never happened once has been confusing.

Is there anywhere in Portland where I'm likely to be approached while sitting alone? Or do people not go out to meet other people anymore? Also, under what circumstances do people offer to buy others drinks? I didn't get out much in my early 20s, and now that I'm a little older I'd like to see what that feels like. I'm not trying to scam anyone, I just want to feel hot and princess-y, if that makes sense. I'm also nuerodivergent (obviously) so I don't really understand how these things work intuitively. I haven't read enough books about the subject 😅

sorry if this isn't the right place to post this!

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u/DiscountEmotional861 — 26 days ago