Need help curating an anti-woman-hater playlist
So I’m (23F) on vacation visiting family, which I don’t get to do often. My older brother (26M) brought his gf along. She (21F) is an absolute sweetheart, but she puts up with far more disrespect from his end than she deserves.
We’re out of the country for this visit. She doesn’t speak the languages of our fam. She feels isolated and misses home, family and dog (espite the visit lasting only 2 weeks for her). He gets angry whenever I try to provide her any language/emotional support. I’ve been trying to make her feel welcome within our family while she is abroad, but having grown up with my older brother, I know his abusive tendencies and what she’s putting up with. Our mother and grandmother want to pretend everything is okay.
This being said, we mostly got along over a major family event but on our return drive, my brother’s woman-hating tendencies came to surface again (probably because we were finally out of the public eye).
We have an 8 hour road trip set out for us tomorrow, and as far as I understand, he ripped into me and his girlfriend for asking him to skip a song on our 1 hour drive back home. I tried to ask why he was mad at me while trying to give him a glass of ice water because of the heat wave here, and assuming he might be out of whits due to the hot weather. He rambled on about me “acting confused and teaming up against him” with his girlfriend who had also just received a verbal lashing from him.
So now I ask the public to help me curate a playlist of songs which a racist, anti-feminist and right-wing extremist might find offensive (in a subtle sense). Right now I’ve been considering some Charlie xcx and Snoop Dogg’s “b*tch n*****” (both as a taste of his own sweet medicine and because our mother, who will be driving, loves pop and hip hop”). I need some other pointed yet subtle songs to add into the mix. He cussed me out multiple times over the past week when he gave his gf silent treatment, simply because I tried my best to make her feel comfortable when he’d rather isolate her from anyone else in a country where she cannot communicate with anyone ouside my direct family (because she didn’t feel comfortable sleeping with him in our family member’s bed, btw). Even our 13 year old brother feels bad for this girl, and I just need a way to get through this 8 hr drive while shitting on my AH brother but not outright starting sh*t, if that makes sense?
I realize this is very well childish, but I’d like to bring out the worst of his own behaviour in the presence of our mother (who very much enables and defends my abusive brother) in front of his girlfriend, so she can 1) understand who my brother actually is at heart, and 2) see how he actually treats the women in his life, but I need to do so in a way that isn’t asking directly for a fight (because obviously my mother would say I’m asking for more of this behaviour). The GF already told me he’s the best she’s ever had in a relationship (so I don’t expect her to break up with him, but hopefully she can remove her rose tinted glasses and recognize she deserves better than his manipulative and abusive behaviour).
So please, what non-pointed songs do you know of that make abusive/narcissistic/manipulative men go insane?
Can’t have any anti-fascist, etc titles to the songs either because they’ll show up on the screen and he’d catch on within the 8 hour drive
Any help is greatly appreciated