u/Double-Carrot-6078

To fellow solo (or group) travellers

Hey guys, im in shibuya right now on a solo trip and the loneliness is hitting. im a pretty big introvert (used to live in Japan before so i kinda blend in but still feel awkward starting convos).
staying in a hostel with other travelers but having a hard time mixing in. would love to do something low key with someone like coffee, walking around, food, or just chilling somewhere.
i look Japanese, live in Canada (and fluent japanese, so I can translate or do low key guide-ish stuff to if you want). if youre also solo or down to meet up feel free to comment or dm.
happy to keep it public and short at first.
thanks if you read this far :)

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u/Double-Carrot-6078 — 1 day ago

Tokyo solo travelling/socializing advices for an introvert :)

Day 2 of my trip in Tokyo, and the loneliness is starting to kick in. I’m an hyper introvert, having a solo trip in Japan, enjoyed it a few times before, but this time everything feels different (I used to live here before for context). I kinda wanted to meet new people, make friends and socialize, so I got a hostel. Bunch of other travellers (almost all Western looking guys) are socializing but it feels to hard to mix in. I look almost exactly like a Japanese, so it also might be awkward for them to start talking to me unless I talk, and I’m too foreigner even if I tried to talk to ppl. And I’m too awkward person to start talking to ppl myself. So I feel like I’m in a really weird spot.I might be too serious about all this, but I feel like I’ve internalized Japanese awkwardness to much in me and even after leaving here, it’s kicking in, like muscle memory. I know all this sounds dumb, like duh they don’t care just go and talk to them. But it is difficult.
SO, the question is, how do I meet people, where do I meet people, anyone feels the same, or just any advice? Just wanted to share what I’m feeling, and/or looking for any advices. If you read this far, thanks :)
If anyone wants to grab a casual coffee or walk around a tourist spot during the day, feel free to comment/DM would be happy to meet in public and chat first

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u/Double-Carrot-6078 — 1 day ago