So I have a problem. I have my sister and is studying at a certain university in Kampala. I live in Europe and I’m really frustrated and i want to know if am not the asshole here. I pay for her Tuition and also cover her hostel fees. Guys I understand it’s hard in Uganda but my sister can’t even have money to feed herself. As much as I pay for her education I want her to meet me halfway so she can find money and take care of herself. She’s the type who will wait for money from me or her mom to do her hair. She’s the type that doesn’t want anything to do with boyfriends which is ok if that’s what she wants but until when?
I feel like it’s really hard to pay for her education and also give her upkeep. She’s 23 yrs now. I feel like she has to hustle her way. I’m pregnant and don’t work anymore but they still ask money from me. I can’t in return ask from my husband because my family is not his responsibility.
I’ve given her a lot. She’s lucky she’s at university( I never attended university) I started hustling my way at the age of 19 but she seems so comfortable for her age 😭 I tried to get her make up items to try and do make up but she got no clients. I feel like she’s not trying enough. I have to send her money for upkeep and also send to my mom. It’s kinda draining me .
What should I do, I don’t have much money now that am pregnant. I don’t want to strain myself working because of sending money home. This is my first baby and I expect to be back to work after 12 months of maternity leave.
Is it so hard in Uganda that she can’t find anything to do?
Pls advise