u/Downtown-Loquat-4856

There is a girl i meet in reddit, we have been together for almost 3 months and honestly she is dry texter 🥀and talks less still, i mostly yap all the time and carry most of the convo literally and to make her talk i try to ask question about what she likes or what she think about certain topic i talk or any other thing is going on world her feedback are short in few words or in one sentence😭, i am losing interest in her.
when ever i see previous chats all the big sentence are from my side and her side are in 2 words or 1 line sentence, and when i ask her why dont she yap or talk about something she say she love to see me yapping ( i know its an excuse to not yap cause she is lazy ).

And the crazy part is she know that she is dry texter and boring person, but when i ask her that doesn’t she want to improve herself make herself better and interesting person she say “nah she is ok and like being lazy”😭
I somewhat felt angry seeing her laziness, like how can person be this lazy and ok being boring person and then blame life is boring and think themselves as useless person.

From experience i know to make life better and interesting rather then boring u have to work on urself explore and learn new things life doesnt give happiness for free it is earned by ur work and effort that u put on urself and in other things and if u just stay lazy then of course no one will talk to you cause u don’t have topics to discuss and u will not be able to talk properly and cant give proper effort to it, then u become alone in life and then blame life and think they are useless cause no one talk to them.