No, it's not okay to stalk people-it's immoral. No, it's not okay or safe to throw stuff on stage-it's stupid. No, it's not good to leave a trashed out stadium-it's inconsiderate.
But MY GOD, the way some people keep hating on cities is so "pick me" behavior. It's like generalizing and trashing other towns somehow makes you feel like a better ARMY or fan. It's fine to call out bad behavior, but just condemning a whole town is hateful and shows how bitter you are.
"They didn't deserve X, Y, or Z song." Okay? Who are you to decide if a whole group of diverse, different people are deserving of something? They paid for the show too.
Also, can people stop speaking for BTS like the GROWN AF MEN can't speak for themselves?? Y'all interpret their words and actions to fit your narrative, and it's so irritating.
"They haven't posted yet because they hate the entire city. Taehyung said they were a great crowd, but really hates them and wants to gtfo. RM told them to sing louder because the crowd sucked (apparently he said this at multiple stops.) They hate X or Y city."
Like omg go get a psychology degree or become a psychic if you're so into that. You all don't know them any better than any other fan, so please just stop and let them speak for themselves on how they feel.
My God, this makes me regret becoming active in the fandom again. I'm not saying it's everyone, but it's enough people and with enough support that it is an issue. Toxic.
ETA: This is more in reference to what's on other social media platforms. Reddit, or at least this Reddit, isn't even half as bad as Insta or Threads.