me and my husband share a 4 year.old noy and a 1 year old boy, we absolutely agreed on our first sons name instantly and were happy with it. with our second we both disagreed on each other's names and couldn't come to a decision even after he was born! so my husband decided for us to pick 2 names each and ask our mums, which worked. At the time I was still unsure on my second name choice but added it to the list, which got picked. after a few months of calling our son this name I started to grow a disliking to it, I just can't imagine our son being called it forever, my grandma's also showed a distaste towards the name. its not very common at all and is an ok name, very different not traditional.
I dread telling people when they ask what's his name and have been feeling this way for months, at least since my baby was 6 months old, I just don't think it suits him. My husband is annoyed and says he likes the name now even though it wasn't his first choice and is refusing to change it, but I really csnt get over the fact that I don't like it. I said he's not being considerate of my feelings, but hes saying I'm not being considerate of his feelings and the fact he likes it now. I just get the ick sometimes and will refer to my baby as the baby or something else its that bad!
what can I do in this situation?